What's for dinner? Meal planning for the unemployed

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By Storytellersrus

Scene.

We were walking in the Hundred Acre Wood this morning- my husband, the dogs and me- taking in the full glory of its crisp, Fall-fresh promise. The sun cast an angular glow across fields of gasping emerald green grasses (hanging on to life) and the brittle tan who'd succumbed. Baxter Thor and Finnegan raced across the lot, tromping both the living and the dead, focused on gaining the advantage- any advantage would satisfy. Pike's Peak hung hazy above the horizon as my feet crunched rocks and sand on autopilot. I was contemplating the meaning of an interrupted dream.

In the midst of all this reverie, my husband asked, What's for dinner?

Seriously.

I did not invent the above scene. I was snapped from contemplation into bafflement. (Is that a word, bafflement? Because if it is, I will have to select another.) I was completely buffooned, transported into stunned no mans land, treading airy fairy ground, where I hung like a hanged woman, before cutting the noose and taking the Fall.

What's for dinner? A far distant occasion at the end of a day I had yet to occupy. Breakfast and lunch hadn't graced my stomach much less tweaked my synapses, and my husband was asking about dinner?

"It's something to look forward to," he muttered.

AH. It hit me: the vague ambivalence of a day unemployed; the vast caverns between mountain tops of possibility; the rare human touch of a resume world.

Food was sensory salvation in the midst of struggle.

I resolved to plan a week of meals that would titillate his senses, give him reason to render himself vulnerable over and over, as with each cold call came the possibility of rejection.

And so, I began my research.

Growling stomachs wait for no job.
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Growling stomachs wait for no job.
Source: JSS

Search logic.

I wanted to plan a week of meals that satisfied three constraints:

1. Meals must be inexpensive, considering we had no income. (And I mean NO income. Because my husband was asked to resign, the relief of an unemployment check was moot.)

2. Meals must be packed with nutrition; empty calories cost money. I wanted ingredients that kept our bodies healthy and our minds motivated, versus sluggish.

3. Meals must be appealing, which meant tasty and varied.

I found a few informative links that fit my menu constraints and I listed these below. But before you examine them, click on How to Become An Urban Food Forager, or watch some of the videos I added to this hub. These sites illustrate the creativity of a population determined not to be flattened by the insensitive words, You're fired or You are now one of the unemployed or We don't need you anymore. They transform the question, What's for dinner? into something beyond adventurous!

Diving in the dumpster finds!

Innovative and unemployed woman markets ebook Cooking for the Newly Unemployed!

Final analysis

I am so distracted by innovation! My adrenaline pumps me up and I want to dive into a dumpster myself. Or dig up some hidden turnips. Still, I have before me a blank shopping list and nothing for tonight's dinner. I need to move ahead with an immediate plan of action.


Off to shop!
Off to shop!
Source: JSS

Two problems

Focused on the need to find some suitable solution to my husband's question, What's for dinner? I wrapped myself in the research effort and in all the foraging, forgot a couple important issues:

1. I need to work within a budget. I will have to price this out at the grocery store and insert substitutions where necessary. Shopping healthy on a budget is a full time job.

2. Our printer is not working. I will have to download it onto a disc and take it to Office Depot to print. Ugh. Or, I can send it to my cell phone. The wonders of modern technology...

3. My daughter needs the car to go to work at 3:30. I have roughly two hours to get the shopping done! With the store fifteen minutes away, this gives me an hour and a half to deposit my budgeted money in the bank, find the items and return home successful.

I believe I can do this. I believe I will do this. Because if I don't, we will have store-roasted chicken for dinner despite "The Plan."

Cynicism

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Storytellersrus Hub Author 4 months ago

teaches12345, we continue to struggle with this unemployment business, which makes holidays a special challenge. I might have written a hub for that, but I was too overwhelmed, haha. Hang in there and let's pray 2012 changes our fortunes. Hugs t12345!

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teaches12345 Level 8 Commenter 4 months ago

I really love this hub. My husband is umemployed right now and I can relate. He is doing the cooking, usually my job, because it gives him something to do. The dumpster find video is great... you just never know what people have to do for a living. Thanks for the info.

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Storytellersrus Hub Author 6 months ago

anglnwu, I will definitely take advantage of your healthy Chinese herb meals! What is most cost effective are meals with the most nutrition and you certainly have a good list of hubs for reference. I will link one of them here, as a matter of fact. Thanks for reminding me by stopping by...

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anglnwu Level 7 Commenter 6 months ago

You defintely have a way with words--love the introduction. Sad that unemployment is so rampant. I see you're quite ingenious in designing meals to make it work for you and plenty of others out there. Thanks and rating it up.

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Storytellersrus Hub Author 6 months ago

Pollyannalana, I love that song too, haha. And your story. You are a true storyteller! Thanks so much for stopping by. I feel like I could offer you tea and you would appear beside me, I suppose because I read your Acorn House hub.

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Pollyannalana 6 months ago

Saving became my roots in early marriage with my self-employed husband's work being seasonal. Great summers and winter, especially after Christmas was anybody's guess. Thank goodness it is not like that anymore but it made us both set in saving regardless of finances, we know tomorrow can always change everything. Some of our best meals where and still are when we think we have nothing. It is surprising what a great meal you can throw together with no meat. Sometimes a real feast.

Good luck and hope it works out for you soon. (Love the song!)

Polly

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Storytellersrus Hub Author 7 months ago

ktrapp, thank you so much for this comment! And things are looking up. (I am considering heading to the store to purchase the ingredients for your Tortellini Soup. It sounds so delicious.)

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ktrapp Level 7 Commenter 7 months ago

I love the way you paint a picture with words. I can easily see the scene when your husband asks, "What's for dinner" in my mind's eye. And how in tune you are to your husband's feelings to realize the real reason this question popped to his mind so early in the day. I hope for the best for your family.

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Storytellersrus Hub Author 7 months ago

JamaG, well we aren't ready to take money from others who need it more at this point. We are fine, really. Why do I go to the bank first? LOL!!!! Why do I?

Very astute, dear one.

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JamaGenee Level 8 Commenter 7 months ago

Story, if you have NO income, you should apply for food stamps. There's no shame in having to use FS, and by doing so you aren't using what precious little cash you have.

And if you don't mind my asking, why do you put the money you're going to use to buy groceries IN THE BANK before you go to the store? Why the extra step? ;D

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Storytellersrus Hub Author 7 months ago

Fe how wonderful to see your name in my in box. As in the best plans of mice and women, there is much holey cheese!

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Feline Prophet Level 4 Commenter 7 months ago

Seems like I've been away forever...I've missed out on so much that's going on! How is 'The Plan' going?

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Storytellersrus Hub Author 7 months ago

WD, what a great comment! Funny and informative, though bittersweet. Hang in there. I hear birds are headed south...

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WD Curry 111 Level 8 Commenter 7 months ago

I really enjoyed the videos. They were off the hook! The truth about unemployment in Florida. 10%? 25-30%. No one has quit looking for a job. There aren't enough. 99ers? 26 weekers and sorry about your luck, we aren't going to give you the federal money.

This is Florida, if you know how, you will survive. Learn edible native plants. We have Jerusalem Artichokes. They are easy to cultivate. Fish, turtles, Daily Bread, Catholic Church, crabs, dinner on the grounds at Baptist church, squirrels, oysters, stolen calf. You know you have been out of work too long when you are rooting for who the father is on Maury Povich.

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Storytellersrus Hub Author 7 months ago

James, thank you for the suggestion. I agree, Farmers Markets are a great way to eat well. We have a couple in the area that I will check out. I feel like I should have planted more than lavender, haha. But that does bring me odiferous joy. Actually, I feel blessed now! I think that saying, when the going gets tough, the tough get going was written after observing my husband. It is amazing to see each family member buck up and support each other. Thanks again. I appreciate your prayers.

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James A Watkins Level 8 Commenter 7 months ago

I am sorry to hear about your situation. Farmer's Markets a good way not only to save money but to eat more nutritiously. It sounds as if you will be blessed soon. I will pray that you are.

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Storytellersrus Hub Author 7 months ago

prasetio30, thank you so much for your blessing and good hopes!

billyaustindillon, how are you? I have not seen your name in months... years??? Hard to believe we have been here long enough to consider this a possibility. A friend of mine was one of those great Moms who saved each month for her kid's college. She had a nice nest egg until her husband lost his job and they had to cash it in for food and mortgage. How does one plan, exactly? I think we would need a crystal ball to figure this Wall Street situation out, don't you? Oh dear. Thaks so much for your good wishes. Hope you are well!

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billyaustindillon Level 2 Commenter 7 months ago

Planning is always important sadly it is only when we have to - like unemployment we begin too. I am the world's worse planner so appreciate the thoughts greatly! Enjoyed the touch of humor throughout and hope it all turns around soon for you. Great info here for us all.

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prasetio30 Level 8 Commenter 7 months ago

I can feel about what happen to you and your husband. I hope the best for you. Keep on writing. I hope you'll get nice income more than before by writing. God bless you!

Prasetio

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Storytellersrus Hub Author 7 months ago

Hey Doc, I appreciate your support! Made my day, in fact. Sometimes life can get me a bit down, but friends like you popping in make all the difference. Thanks.

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drpastorcarlotta 7 months ago

Very, very useful article!!!!!!!!!! Voted-Up! and Useful! Thank you for the links!!! Your GREAT!

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Storytellersrus Hub Author 7 months ago

Brenda? I am excited to read your comments!!! Thank you so much for your support. Are you going to write hubs???

Prickly FLower, thank you, haha. I know the dumpster idea is SO tempting! Although I would NOT want to dig out cantaloupe for the moment...

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Prickly Flower 7 months ago

You go girl! You can and will do this! Too bad the local supermarket here has it's dumpster behind a high fence... unbelievable that all that good food is just thrown away.

BrenElice 7 months ago

BARB! I'm signed in, I have an account, I can comment. WooHoo. Your story and the whole thread are both quite wonderful. Your courage and energy and "let's get down and solve this problem" is praiseworthy. So here's come the praise and the....Blessings. Bountiful, bountiful blessings will cover you in gladness. Starting tonight.

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Storytellersrus Hub Author 7 months ago

Hyphenbird, I was assured that we did not qualify for unemployment, but my husband has already made headway on a job so I am encouraged! I hope the silly videos make you laugh and that you find some new ideas within the links.

sweetoneangel, thank you. You are new to me! I will have to visit your site.

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sweetoneangel Level 1 Commenter 7 months ago

great hub, I enjoyed the links, very useful.

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Hyphenbird Level 8 Commenter 7 months ago

It is a whole new world when unemployment hits. (Your husband should apply for benefits anyway, can't hurt) I have been living this way for a year and a half now. We actually eat healthier because I plan better and have time to cook. I will look into some of your links. Thanks for thinking to share them with others.

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